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"If My Estranged Child Only Knew How Upset I Am They'd Change
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<blockquote data-quote="overcome mom" data-source="post: 745002" data-attributes="member: 23328"><p>So sorry I didn't get back and let everyone know how it went, thanks so much for the concern. I did talk with my son before he got here and told him his Dad was in a really pissy mood and maybe he should not come until tomorrow. He started to cry said it was a horrible day and now this. I talked to my husband again and he agreed to not confront him today. Son did come finally at 4:00pm at that point my husband had mellowed. Rest of the night went fine. He spent the night and then ended up leaving about 4:00 the next day. He definitely is clinically depressed . We talked with him about getting on medication but didn't seem to interested. It is so hard to get him any medical treatment as he is constantly on the road for work and doesn't really have a permanent place to go when he is not. It is also harder to not enable after I see him, as I see the little boy I love and see how he is suffering. I know that the vast majority of his problems are of his own doing. Right before he left I realized he bought a TV he can use in his vehicle. He has so many bills he owes,he has no business buying a TV. I didn't go on and on about it but did say I was surprised that he could afford it. Told me it was a really good deal. LOL In a few weeks he will lose this job and ask for money. Guess now I can tell him to pawn the TV. Also got his father and I nothing for Christmas which I wasn't expecting until I saw the TV. </p><p>I had my MRI Friday, not a fun experience. I am hoping that I'll hear the results tomorrow but I may have to wait until Wednesday. Still hoping I don't have to cancel the trip. I already have to have surgery on my nose a week after I get back so I am not looking forward to that. If I don't start feeling less anxious after my nose surgery I think I'll go on some medication.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="overcome mom, post: 745002, member: 23328"] So sorry I didn't get back and let everyone know how it went, thanks so much for the concern. I did talk with my son before he got here and told him his Dad was in a really pissy mood and maybe he should not come until tomorrow. He started to cry said it was a horrible day and now this. I talked to my husband again and he agreed to not confront him today. Son did come finally at 4:00pm at that point my husband had mellowed. Rest of the night went fine. He spent the night and then ended up leaving about 4:00 the next day. He definitely is clinically depressed . We talked with him about getting on medication but didn't seem to interested. It is so hard to get him any medical treatment as he is constantly on the road for work and doesn't really have a permanent place to go when he is not. It is also harder to not enable after I see him, as I see the little boy I love and see how he is suffering. I know that the vast majority of his problems are of his own doing. Right before he left I realized he bought a TV he can use in his vehicle. He has so many bills he owes,he has no business buying a TV. I didn't go on and on about it but did say I was surprised that he could afford it. Told me it was a really good deal. LOL In a few weeks he will lose this job and ask for money. Guess now I can tell him to pawn the TV. Also got his father and I nothing for Christmas which I wasn't expecting until I saw the TV. I had my MRI Friday, not a fun experience. I am hoping that I'll hear the results tomorrow but I may have to wait until Wednesday. Still hoping I don't have to cancel the trip. I already have to have surgery on my nose a week after I get back so I am not looking forward to that. If I don't start feeling less anxious after my nose surgery I think I'll go on some medication. [/QUOTE]
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