Hi and welcome, TMW
I am glad to hear that your granddaughter is doing well. I have a friend that survived childhood cancer, and she is now in her 40s.
It sounds like you feel caught between your sisters, daughter, mom, husband, and grandkids.
You are really going to have to decide which are your priorities, and act accordingly. If it were up to me, I would say your husband and your grandchildren should come first.
I wouldn’t listen to the sister who wants you to go out and find your daughter. To what end? You can’t bring her to your house, and the sister doesn’t seem to be wanting to bring your daughter into her home, so why go find her? Your daughter knows where everyone lives. She isn’t lost. She is choosing to be homeless. There are plenty of services for women with young children.
Let it go for now, and focus on what you have—your husband and grandchildren.
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