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"If you don't care, why should I?" Is this TOO tough?
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 447634" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well since no one mentioned it -----</p><p></p><p>Depending on where you live and what officer of the law pulled you over and CHOSE to search your car - under reasonable suspicion - and that could have been -------(and I know what I'm talking about) </p><p></p><p>a.) Saw your son smoking something at the beach and didn't 'catch' him but watched him go back to your room, followed him to your car and <u><em>MAY</em></u> have thought he was dealing. Pulls you over. </p><p>b.) Passed him in a convenience store while you pulled over to get a drink and saw bloodshot eyes, smelled residue and followed him to YOUR car, pulls your car over and asks YOU as the owner to search. </p><p> (I mean you could say NO, which at that point - your car is impounded, then taken back to the police impound and searched, you are all handcuffed, and searched and arrested) </p><p>c.) You get arrested for your son being in possession of drugs and drug paraphanelia. Sounds pretty far fetched, but it COULD have happened. Not saying an officer wouldn't have known you were innocent, but l like I said depends on the day, the officer, the weather. </p><p>d.) If the officer wanted to be a REAL jerk - your car could have been impounded. </p><p></p><p>Someone here DID say that the kids could have burned down your house, stolen things, left the doors open and someone ELSE could have stolen things and burned down your house, or just vandalized it, broken things. Boneheaded move at best. House wasn't HIS to loan out. Not to mention I'm so paranoid about things - How do you know there aren't NOW cameras set up in your home watching everything you do? Nanny cams are the size of pencil erasers these days. (see I told you I was paranoid, but this never crosses ANYONE's mind until their naked butts are all over You Tube) </p><p></p><p>So if ANY of THOSE things happened or were to happen - ASK YOURSELF - not us.....</p><p></p><p>GOSH SHOULD I ALLOW THAT KID BACK IN MY HOUSE???? AND SHOULD I CONTINUE TO SUPPORT HIM???? AND IF NOT A GOOD FRIEND OF HIS, BUT HIS OWN MOTHER HAD DONE SOMETHING SIMILAR AND BETRAYED HIS TRUST? How many MONTHS or YEARS would it take him to trust YOUR WORD again? </p><p></p><p>Trust takes YEARS of doing the right thing to rebuild......as for me and MY House? He'd better get cracking......down the straight and narrow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 447634, member: 4964"] Well since no one mentioned it ----- Depending on where you live and what officer of the law pulled you over and CHOSE to search your car - under reasonable suspicion - and that could have been -------(and I know what I'm talking about) a.) Saw your son smoking something at the beach and didn't 'catch' him but watched him go back to your room, followed him to your car and [U][I]MAY[/I][/U] have thought he was dealing. Pulls you over. b.) Passed him in a convenience store while you pulled over to get a drink and saw bloodshot eyes, smelled residue and followed him to YOUR car, pulls your car over and asks YOU as the owner to search. (I mean you could say NO, which at that point - your car is impounded, then taken back to the police impound and searched, you are all handcuffed, and searched and arrested) c.) You get arrested for your son being in possession of drugs and drug paraphanelia. Sounds pretty far fetched, but it COULD have happened. Not saying an officer wouldn't have known you were innocent, but l like I said depends on the day, the officer, the weather. d.) If the officer wanted to be a REAL jerk - your car could have been impounded. Someone here DID say that the kids could have burned down your house, stolen things, left the doors open and someone ELSE could have stolen things and burned down your house, or just vandalized it, broken things. Boneheaded move at best. House wasn't HIS to loan out. Not to mention I'm so paranoid about things - How do you know there aren't NOW cameras set up in your home watching everything you do? Nanny cams are the size of pencil erasers these days. (see I told you I was paranoid, but this never crosses ANYONE's mind until their naked butts are all over You Tube) So if ANY of THOSE things happened or were to happen - ASK YOURSELF - not us..... GOSH SHOULD I ALLOW THAT KID BACK IN MY HOUSE???? AND SHOULD I CONTINUE TO SUPPORT HIM???? AND IF NOT A GOOD FRIEND OF HIS, BUT HIS OWN MOTHER HAD DONE SOMETHING SIMILAR AND BETRAYED HIS TRUST? How many MONTHS or YEARS would it take him to trust YOUR WORD again? Trust takes YEARS of doing the right thing to rebuild......as for me and MY House? He'd better get cracking......down the straight and narrow. [/QUOTE]
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