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<blockquote data-quote="ckay87" data-source="post: 749218" data-attributes="member: 24067"><p>Tanya, you made me cry. That's easy nowadays, lol. KSM, I love your suggestions and briefly researched both. They don't seem feasible in my area, but I'm not ruling them out, I love them. RN... thanks for your words, he'd never join the military.</p><p></p><p>One thing I didn't mention is the flurry of accusatory, and manipulative texts from my ex on the subject. The gist of those are (I kid you not), he's your son and you are always responsible for him no matter what (actually that's a direct quote). And that I want to just shack up with my boyfriend bla bla bla. I know that is all bitter BS, but it didn't help my heartburn on this. I'd block him but we do share offspring, so I hesitate to do that.</p><p></p><p>Anyway.... yeah, I'm not currently giving him money. The financial help I've agreed to give him will be well-defined (and that is a good reminder) and, I will admit, is as much for appeasing my own guilt as it is to help him.</p><p></p><p>Several years ago I left my marriage. It was unhappy, but not abusive. But it was so scary and everyday I had to will myself to stay strong and keep going. This is that. And I so appreciate finding this community. Please set me straight if there is anything I don't have in proper perspective.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ckay87, post: 749218, member: 24067"] Tanya, you made me cry. That's easy nowadays, lol. KSM, I love your suggestions and briefly researched both. They don't seem feasible in my area, but I'm not ruling them out, I love them. RN... thanks for your words, he'd never join the military. One thing I didn't mention is the flurry of accusatory, and manipulative texts from my ex on the subject. The gist of those are (I kid you not), he's your son and you are always responsible for him no matter what (actually that's a direct quote). And that I want to just shack up with my boyfriend bla bla bla. I know that is all bitter BS, but it didn't help my heartburn on this. I'd block him but we do share offspring, so I hesitate to do that. Anyway.... yeah, I'm not currently giving him money. The financial help I've agreed to give him will be well-defined (and that is a good reminder) and, I will admit, is as much for appeasing my own guilt as it is to help him. Several years ago I left my marriage. It was unhappy, but not abusive. But it was so scary and everyday I had to will myself to stay strong and keep going. This is that. And I so appreciate finding this community. Please set me straight if there is anything I don't have in proper perspective. [/QUOTE]
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