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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 749219" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>My only suggestion, based on going broke helping my daughter only to see her ruin every opportunity she had and to abuse us on top of it and not to grow one day more mature is to advise you to refuse to let him live with you no matter how bad he makes his situation. Wish we had not tried to save our daughter. We ruined our best years trying to fix her and came close to divorcing. Most of our hard earned money from our company is gone. Retirement will be slim pickings.</p><p></p><p>We finally stopped. She is no better off and is very angry at us, but we are not going back. Right now we are on vacation without our phones on and she doesn't know where we are. It has been peaceful after a long nightmare. I hope you dont ruin your relationship to try to save your son. in my opinion it doesnt work. You deserve to be happy. So do all of us. They are young and if they become homeless, always my worst fear, they will learn how to survive and will be okay and maybe decide to mature. One day they will be without us anyway. Enjoy your life. Jmo.</p><p></p><p>If your ex is such a prince in his own eyes and so condemning of you, tell your son to pack up and go try Dad. What a butthead! Nothing stopping ex from inviting his son to his place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 749219, member: 23706"] My only suggestion, based on going broke helping my daughter only to see her ruin every opportunity she had and to abuse us on top of it and not to grow one day more mature is to advise you to refuse to let him live with you no matter how bad he makes his situation. Wish we had not tried to save our daughter. We ruined our best years trying to fix her and came close to divorcing. Most of our hard earned money from our company is gone. Retirement will be slim pickings. We finally stopped. She is no better off and is very angry at us, but we are not going back. Right now we are on vacation without our phones on and she doesn't know where we are. It has been peaceful after a long nightmare. I hope you dont ruin your relationship to try to save your son. in my opinion it doesnt work. You deserve to be happy. So do all of us. They are young and if they become homeless, always my worst fear, they will learn how to survive and will be okay and maybe decide to mature. One day they will be without us anyway. Enjoy your life. Jmo. If your ex is such a prince in his own eyes and so condemning of you, tell your son to pack up and go try Dad. What a butthead! Nothing stopping ex from inviting his son to his place. [/QUOTE]
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