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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 749224" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Oh goodness, I did not mean to make you cry. </p><p> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sorry.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sorry:" title="sorry :sorry:" data-shortname=":sorry:" /></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well isn't that special. I'm glad that you see it for what it is, an attempt to manipulate you. I wonder if his attempt to make you feel guilty and to continue taking care of your adult son, is so that he can absolve himself from getting involved. If your son knows he can't come to you for money then he may go to his father and then your ex would have to deal with him.</p><p>I'm telling you that you are not responsible for your son. You've done your job and raised him the best you could. He's an adult now and is responsible for himself. Seriously, do you want to be an 80 year old woman with a 60 year old son sleeping on your couch. Your ex is a little removed from reality in his thinking. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like you have a good grip on things. This is not an easy journey to be on but I and many others here are proof that you cannot only survive having a difficult adult child, but you can go on to live a full and happy life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 749224, member: 18516"] Oh goodness, I did not mean to make you cry. :sorry: Well isn't that special. I'm glad that you see it for what it is, an attempt to manipulate you. I wonder if his attempt to make you feel guilty and to continue taking care of your adult son, is so that he can absolve himself from getting involved. If your son knows he can't come to you for money then he may go to his father and then your ex would have to deal with him. I'm telling you that you are not responsible for your son. You've done your job and raised him the best you could. He's an adult now and is responsible for himself. Seriously, do you want to be an 80 year old woman with a 60 year old son sleeping on your couch. Your ex is a little removed from reality in his thinking. It sounds like you have a good grip on things. This is not an easy journey to be on but I and many others here are proof that you cannot only survive having a difficult adult child, but you can go on to live a full and happy life. [/QUOTE]
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