MWM, DDD posted to me once that she believed family contact helped our struggling kids of whatever age to remember who they were before the bad times began, and helped them to believe that they COULD do it, that they did, after all, have the strength to make it through to the other side.
I think that is true.
I agree with the others of us that your daughter is fighting hard to keep herself on the good path she has chosen. Do you think it might help her to look at her feelings in that light? Sort of like this is another hurdle on the path to full recovery?
Sometimes, if we can just make sense of what is happening to us, we can stand by our healthier choices.
I know this is hard for you, MWM.
Sending strength for you and holding you and your child in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara
