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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 492188" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>My thoughts were along the lines of Susie et al...</p><p></p><p>In real life, its not unusual, but the "system" probably hasn't really stopped to look at it this way.</p><p></p><p>On one hand, you are the victim. In which case, if it were serious, you wouldn't want anything to do with difficult child.</p><p>On the other hand, you are the Mom. In which case, you will advocate for your child to the extent of your powers, because you are Mom.</p><p></p><p>To the "system" - how can you be both? If you're being Mom, then you really can't be the victim?</p><p></p><p>Its not right. Its not correct. Its not fair.</p><p>But I can see how they get to their point of view.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you need to flag that particular logic-split to the lawyer...? in case she hasn't thought of it that way yet?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 492188, member: 11791"] My thoughts were along the lines of Susie et al... In real life, its not unusual, but the "system" probably hasn't really stopped to look at it this way. On one hand, you are the victim. In which case, if it were serious, you wouldn't want anything to do with difficult child. On the other hand, you are the Mom. In which case, you will advocate for your child to the extent of your powers, because you are Mom. To the "system" - how can you be both? If you're being Mom, then you really can't be the victim? Its not right. Its not correct. Its not fair. But I can see how they get to their point of view. Maybe you need to flag that particular logic-split to the lawyer...? in case she hasn't thought of it that way yet? [/QUOTE]
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