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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 664700" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Beautiful post, Serenity.</p><p></p><p>The ceremony will be perfect. It seems more a celebration of completion, of overflowing heart and gratitude than Memorial. Something beautiful, some way to mark the time. We all have accomplished so much in these months. How can it be true that each is ready to move on and yet, we are.</p><p></p><p>We did it.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>I have that sense of closure, of completion, of moving on, too. Copa will be off to New Orleans and on to other adventures and I expect we will see great things from her as she begins to work again.</p><p></p><p>We will watch for her. </p><p></p><p>I will begin writing. If anything good happens? I will post something for us, here. </p><p></p><p>It's so strange that you should have posted as you have, Serenity. </p><p></p><p>Before I came on this morning, I had just been thinking, not so much of leaving the site ~ probably I will never do that altogether, you all mean too much to me ~ but that I should begin to add things to my life. Music, mostly. That I could have been threading music through the hours we have spent here, and then I would know more music. </p><p></p><p>All the things there are for me to know.</p><p></p><p>Funny little things like that, I have been thinking. Things to do with efficiency, and with discipline. And even with presence, I suppose.</p><p>And ballet again. Old as I am, I am thinking about that, at least the basics of it ~ barre and posture and the strength and grace of it. </p><p></p><p>We've accomplished something very special, the three of us.</p><p></p><p>I was thinking about your sister, Serenity. Could it be that she will come to see things differently, too? She must have been writing some terrible things, for the moderators there to have suspended her. My sister seems focused on me in that same hateful way that yours is; Copa's, too. It must have something to do with the ways we all were hurt, when we were little girls. I hope your sister can come through this...D H says I will always have to be wary of FOO and especially, of my sister. I wish they did not feel as they do, our sisters. But like we've all said a million times, it is better for us to know. We are less vulnerable to them, and to the hurtful ways they see us, now. </p><p></p><p>I am so happy for you, that you received validation regarding the intense toxicity in the way your sister seems determined to see you. I can never believe it about mine, either. It seems to be true alright, though. Just think. We probably never would have believed what we know now about ourselves and about our families and about how to heal so much of it without this site.</p><p></p><p>Isn't that an amazing thing.</p><p></p><p>I will still be around, of course I will, but I do want to thank you both, Serenity and Copa. IC, nerfherder, pasa, Confused. </p><p></p><p>I wonder how you are doing, Confused.</p><p></p><p>We would like to know, Copa and Serenity and I.</p><p></p><p>Will you post about the Ceremony for us here, Serenity?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 664700, member: 17461"] Beautiful post, Serenity. The ceremony will be perfect. It seems more a celebration of completion, of overflowing heart and gratitude than Memorial. Something beautiful, some way to mark the time. We all have accomplished so much in these months. How can it be true that each is ready to move on and yet, we are. We did it. :O) I have that sense of closure, of completion, of moving on, too. Copa will be off to New Orleans and on to other adventures and I expect we will see great things from her as she begins to work again. We will watch for her. I will begin writing. If anything good happens? I will post something for us, here. It's so strange that you should have posted as you have, Serenity. Before I came on this morning, I had just been thinking, not so much of leaving the site ~ probably I will never do that altogether, you all mean too much to me ~ but that I should begin to add things to my life. Music, mostly. That I could have been threading music through the hours we have spent here, and then I would know more music. All the things there are for me to know. Funny little things like that, I have been thinking. Things to do with efficiency, and with discipline. And even with presence, I suppose. And ballet again. Old as I am, I am thinking about that, at least the basics of it ~ barre and posture and the strength and grace of it. We've accomplished something very special, the three of us. I was thinking about your sister, Serenity. Could it be that she will come to see things differently, too? She must have been writing some terrible things, for the moderators there to have suspended her. My sister seems focused on me in that same hateful way that yours is; Copa's, too. It must have something to do with the ways we all were hurt, when we were little girls. I hope your sister can come through this...D H says I will always have to be wary of FOO and especially, of my sister. I wish they did not feel as they do, our sisters. But like we've all said a million times, it is better for us to know. We are less vulnerable to them, and to the hurtful ways they see us, now. I am so happy for you, that you received validation regarding the intense toxicity in the way your sister seems determined to see you. I can never believe it about mine, either. It seems to be true alright, though. Just think. We probably never would have believed what we know now about ourselves and about our families and about how to heal so much of it without this site. Isn't that an amazing thing. I will still be around, of course I will, but I do want to thank you both, Serenity and Copa. IC, nerfherder, pasa, Confused. I wonder how you are doing, Confused. We would like to know, Copa and Serenity and I. Will you post about the Ceremony for us here, Serenity? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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