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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 664899" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I never thought of it that way. I do feel dirtied by the things my mother, and even my sister, have told me they've done.</p><p></p><p>I went to see my sister, once. And all she could tell everyone who would listen, whenever that visit came up again, is that she had told everyone I was "Minnesota married". There would be no going behind a bush, as is apparently appropriate in a Texas marriage.</p><p></p><p>And she thought that was really funny.</p><p></p><p>And I felt like I was not getting the joke somehow, but I laughed about it too.</p><p></p><p>D H did not think it was funny.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yeah. Wasn't that a nasty thing. To laugh at me like that, and be so mean. It is humiliating, to be seen like that. Like some dorky person, putting herself above everyone and seen as such.</p><p></p><p>You would think, that with everything else we've posted about, that one little phrase would not still leave me feeling betrayed.</p><p></p><p>I will work on that.</p><p></p><p>That has to be the flavor of interacting with those two shysters.</p><p></p><p>Once I get through it, I will be immune to much of what they have left lying around like psychic mine fields after the war.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Maya Angelou has discussed something similar Copa, regarding race and buffoonery in general. "...that hurts me. For you. Please do not do it around me."</p><p></p><p>This is a perfect response, Copa. It is putting responsibility squarely where it belongs for each of the parties involved in the abusive incident.</p><p></p><p>I loved the post Copa, but felt such delight at the Frenchman's appearance that I gave it a laughing face.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 664899, member: 17461"] I never thought of it that way. I do feel dirtied by the things my mother, and even my sister, have told me they've done. I went to see my sister, once. And all she could tell everyone who would listen, whenever that visit came up again, is that she had told everyone I was "Minnesota married". There would be no going behind a bush, as is apparently appropriate in a Texas marriage. And she thought that was really funny. And I felt like I was not getting the joke somehow, but I laughed about it too. D H did not think it was funny. Yeah. Wasn't that a nasty thing. To laugh at me like that, and be so mean. It is humiliating, to be seen like that. Like some dorky person, putting herself above everyone and seen as such. You would think, that with everything else we've posted about, that one little phrase would not still leave me feeling betrayed. I will work on that. That has to be the flavor of interacting with those two shysters. Once I get through it, I will be immune to much of what they have left lying around like psychic mine fields after the war. Maya Angelou has discussed something similar Copa, regarding race and buffoonery in general. "...that hurts me. For you. Please do not do it around me." This is a perfect response, Copa. It is putting responsibility squarely where it belongs for each of the parties involved in the abusive incident. I loved the post Copa, but felt such delight at the Frenchman's appearance that I gave it a laughing face. :hugs: Cedar [/QUOTE]
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