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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 666016" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm not going to say I made no mistakes, Cedar (whenever you read this). We have a high strung family. I show it. Sister is just as bad, but passive aggressive. So we weren't always as kind as we should have been. But at the beginning, before she started calling the cops, I loved her desperatelly and tried to help her in any way I could. And I did help her. And I would have kept it up if she had not changed toward me.</p><p></p><p>With all the stuff I was dealing with, I did the best I could. I loved her. Unconditionally. Even when she did things I could never have done.</p><p></p><p>That unconditional love started petering off as she started ripping into MY character...the intense love gradually started to lower as I had other peeps who really did care about me...I knew the cut offs were not normal. The cops were not normal. She was not normal. Was I? No...lol. None of us where, growing up as we did and with our DNA. But I tried harder than she did and now I don't want to try anymore.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for your confidence in me. I did mean well. I would have forgiven her every time on a dime, and I did, until the last time. I'd had it by then and I'd, sadly, seen her real self too...we do not have the same morals or values. Not saying mine are better than hers, only that ours are different. What she thinks is ok is very not ok to me and possibly vice versa. I'm sure she feels I'm a horrible prude (shrug).</p><p></p><p>We're better apart...forever. I know her well too. This will not be an easy walk for her to take either. She will miss me and I won't miss her anymore because I fear her. But she always misses me. So this last cut off will be a journey that may not be that easy.</p><p></p><p>But we both must and will do this. </p><p></p><p>I'm done for good with cut offs, cops, and her. I have different peeps now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 666016, member: 1550"] I'm not going to say I made no mistakes, Cedar (whenever you read this). We have a high strung family. I show it. Sister is just as bad, but passive aggressive. So we weren't always as kind as we should have been. But at the beginning, before she started calling the cops, I loved her desperatelly and tried to help her in any way I could. And I did help her. And I would have kept it up if she had not changed toward me. With all the stuff I was dealing with, I did the best I could. I loved her. Unconditionally. Even when she did things I could never have done. That unconditional love started petering off as she started ripping into MY character...the intense love gradually started to lower as I had other peeps who really did care about me...I knew the cut offs were not normal. The cops were not normal. She was not normal. Was I? No...lol. None of us where, growing up as we did and with our DNA. But I tried harder than she did and now I don't want to try anymore. Thank you for your confidence in me. I did mean well. I would have forgiven her every time on a dime, and I did, until the last time. I'd had it by then and I'd, sadly, seen her real self too...we do not have the same morals or values. Not saying mine are better than hers, only that ours are different. What she thinks is ok is very not ok to me and possibly vice versa. I'm sure she feels I'm a horrible prude (shrug). We're better apart...forever. I know her well too. This will not be an easy walk for her to take either. She will miss me and I won't miss her anymore because I fear her. But she always misses me. So this last cut off will be a journey that may not be that easy. But we both must and will do this. I'm done for good with cut offs, cops, and her. I have different peeps now. [/QUOTE]
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