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In a totally new place and need perspective? Cedar? Anyone?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 666462" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Since I am mostly out of bed now, I am catching up on work. Today I am sorting papers. A couple of letters and cards showed up from when my mother was first here with me, before my sister stopped contact.</p><p></p><p>In a letter she tells my mother how bad my mother must feel that she is in my city (i.e. in a place so dull and without redeeming qualities). In another note, she reviews travel plans she made for my mother for the upcoming Christmas, including a flight itinerary, and the mention that there will be an attendant to meet her at the plane.</p><p></p><p>While I remember I did feel slightly bad when she knocked my town, I did not pay attention to my exclusion from any Christmas plans. She does not even mention the possibility that I might want to visit. I am used to her rudeness.</p><p></p><p>What surprises me is that until now, I did not even pay attention to being excluded. I think I was so accustomed to exclusion and not being considered it was normal to me. It does not feel normal now.</p><p></p><p>Thank you Cedar and Serenity,</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 666462, member: 18958"] Since I am mostly out of bed now, I am catching up on work. Today I am sorting papers. A couple of letters and cards showed up from when my mother was first here with me, before my sister stopped contact. In a letter she tells my mother how bad my mother must feel that she is in my city (i.e. in a place so dull and without redeeming qualities). In another note, she reviews travel plans she made for my mother for the upcoming Christmas, including a flight itinerary, and the mention that there will be an attendant to meet her at the plane. While I remember I did feel slightly bad when she knocked my town, I did not pay attention to my exclusion from any Christmas plans. She does not even mention the possibility that I might want to visit. I am used to her rudeness. What surprises me is that until now, I did not even pay attention to being excluded. I think I was so accustomed to exclusion and not being considered it was normal to me. It does not feel normal now. Thank you Cedar and Serenity, COPA [/QUOTE]
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