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<blockquote data-quote="Csmom" data-source="post: 760107" data-attributes="member: 25643"><p>Yes, Copa, they just aren’t there yet. I feel addicted to my son. Addicted to his problems. And every time I think I am just helping him get back up. Only for him to continue to make bad decisions. He is due in court in a couple of weeks. He was on probation for a year. If he would have completed his probation, his record would have been cleared. But he didn’t. He got arrested in another state and he hasn’t finished his community service hours. I am assuming he will get some jail time for the violations. I am okay with it. He has to learn. He was living in a tent in the other state where he is awaiting a court date and unable to leave the state. I bought him a bike to help him to get to a new job he started. He then spent a few nights with a girl from work and when he went back to his campsite, everything was gone. Again, not my fault but he calls me to vent and complain. He just doesn’t seem to learn from natural consequences. I am starting to see a counselor this week. I need to get stronger with my boundaries and I need help with the anxiety of my son’s chaotic life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Csmom, post: 760107, member: 25643"] Yes, Copa, they just aren’t there yet. I feel addicted to my son. Addicted to his problems. And every time I think I am just helping him get back up. Only for him to continue to make bad decisions. He is due in court in a couple of weeks. He was on probation for a year. If he would have completed his probation, his record would have been cleared. But he didn’t. He got arrested in another state and he hasn’t finished his community service hours. I am assuming he will get some jail time for the violations. I am okay with it. He has to learn. He was living in a tent in the other state where he is awaiting a court date and unable to leave the state. I bought him a bike to help him to get to a new job he started. He then spent a few nights with a girl from work and when he went back to his campsite, everything was gone. Again, not my fault but he calls me to vent and complain. He just doesn’t seem to learn from natural consequences. I am starting to see a counselor this week. I need to get stronger with my boundaries and I need help with the anxiety of my son’s chaotic life. [/QUOTE]
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