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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 726431" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>my son off and on lived in a rental house we have. he was there until a week or two ago. but for more than 4 years he was on his own couch surfing for the most part.</p><p></p><p>when he came home at 19 it went well for a year or so. he went to college.he was happy in the coastal community where we lived. when i moved due to work he chose to follow and could not get his footing in the new community. </p><p></p><p>we struggled until he left at 23 returning at 27.</p><p></p><p>he is better but lives his life focused on marijuana. </p><p></p><p>as a child he was very loving and largely tractable. he is becoming loving again. part of my pain is that our relationship was always good and strong. i think some of the struggle is growing up and away. as well as their dealing with their issues and histories. </p><p></p><p>i am seeing that i do him no favors insulating him from the effects of his decisions and behavior.</p><p></p><p>to me you clearly do not want him home. this seems to be a direct consequence of how he acts. whn he acts differently, like with friends, there is a different result.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 726431, member: 18958"] my son off and on lived in a rental house we have. he was there until a week or two ago. but for more than 4 years he was on his own couch surfing for the most part. when he came home at 19 it went well for a year or so. he went to college.he was happy in the coastal community where we lived. when i moved due to work he chose to follow and could not get his footing in the new community. we struggled until he left at 23 returning at 27. he is better but lives his life focused on marijuana. as a child he was very loving and largely tractable. he is becoming loving again. part of my pain is that our relationship was always good and strong. i think some of the struggle is growing up and away. as well as their dealing with their issues and histories. i am seeing that i do him no favors insulating him from the effects of his decisions and behavior. to me you clearly do not want him home. this seems to be a direct consequence of how he acts. whn he acts differently, like with friends, there is a different result. [/QUOTE]
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