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<blockquote data-quote="SiriusHertz" data-source="post: 593786" data-attributes="member: 16270"><p><strong>Concerns - Present and Future</strong> </p><p>difficult child 1's behavior at home is beginning to improve under intensive social coaching, especially from step-mother. His behavior at school unfortunately is not improving. We are worried that difficult child 1 will be expelled from school for his continued behavior, both with his peers and with his teachers. His teachers seem to be reaching their wit's end with him, and often say things like, 'difficult child 1 will not complete his work. We have followed the behavior plan. Ball's in your court.' (SMS message from AES Coordinator)</p><p>difficult child 1 would like to be able to interact with other children appropriately and effectively. He would like to have friends.</p><p>We worry that difficult child 1's behavior will land him in criminal trouble at some point if not corrected.</p><p>---</p><p></p><p>Ok, there are three posts there quoting from his Parent Report - looks like the first needs to be approved by the mods before it will be visible, but the second and this post seem to be showing up.</p><p></p><p>To answer the one question that you all ask: I am certainly not aware of any sexual abuse. He has never mentioned or even hinted at anything in that vein, nor has his sister, to any of the various adults in their lives. It is certainly possible: none of us is a full-time stay-at-home parent so he does have a lot of adults in his life, but all of them are either family or professional care-givers, so I hope it's unlikely.</p><p></p><p>After his mother and I divorced, I formed a fairly stable and lasting relationship with his step-mother, who has two kids form a pervious relationship, in a very short time (a few months later). His mother dated for a few years and has only recently - 4-5 years on - found a fairly-stable relationship with a man who has two children of his own.</p><p></p><p>difficult child 1 is not and has not been on any psychiatric medication, although with the family history I detailed above, I suspect it's only a matter of time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SiriusHertz, post: 593786, member: 16270"] [B]Concerns - Present and Future[/B] difficult child 1's behavior at home is beginning to improve under intensive social coaching, especially from step-mother. His behavior at school unfortunately is not improving. We are worried that difficult child 1 will be expelled from school for his continued behavior, both with his peers and with his teachers. His teachers seem to be reaching their wit's end with him, and often say things like, 'difficult child 1 will not complete his work. We have followed the behavior plan. Ball's in your court.' (SMS message from AES Coordinator) difficult child 1 would like to be able to interact with other children appropriately and effectively. He would like to have friends. We worry that difficult child 1's behavior will land him in criminal trouble at some point if not corrected. --- Ok, there are three posts there quoting from his Parent Report - looks like the first needs to be approved by the mods before it will be visible, but the second and this post seem to be showing up. To answer the one question that you all ask: I am certainly not aware of any sexual abuse. He has never mentioned or even hinted at anything in that vein, nor has his sister, to any of the various adults in their lives. It is certainly possible: none of us is a full-time stay-at-home parent so he does have a lot of adults in his life, but all of them are either family or professional care-givers, so I hope it's unlikely. After his mother and I divorced, I formed a fairly stable and lasting relationship with his step-mother, who has two kids form a pervious relationship, in a very short time (a few months later). His mother dated for a few years and has only recently - 4-5 years on - found a fairly-stable relationship with a man who has two children of his own. difficult child 1 is not and has not been on any psychiatric medication, although with the family history I detailed above, I suspect it's only a matter of time. [/QUOTE]
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