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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 711825" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I would feel the same; the implication is you don't count. Like you are invisible. Or she wants you to be. This is particularly cruel. It is like she wants you to know that you are in the margin, out of the circle. And she is letting you know SHE is conscious of this and wants you to know your place too. That is the part that is impossibly difficult. She is forcing you to take notice of it all. She seems to be putting it right up front. We can try to forgive her because obviously she has REAL issues, but still, I would have a hard time too. Of course, there is literal truth to what she says: you are not a family member and she is choosing to keep you away from her family. But why? And why tell you? For what?</p><p>This is what I mean. She is telling you here this is intentional and this is her plan and she wants you to know it is. She wants you to know your place. In Latin culture this is very, very rude. When we go to family gatherings at M's sister's house, there is nearly always a neighbor or a friend, more than one. She is choosing to exclude you Nomad. And she wants you to know. And she continues to use you as a confident. Why? I am sorry, Nomad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 711825, member: 18958"] I would feel the same; the implication is you don't count. Like you are invisible. Or she wants you to be. This is particularly cruel. It is like she wants you to know that you are in the margin, out of the circle. And she is letting you know SHE is conscious of this and wants you to know your place too. That is the part that is impossibly difficult. She is forcing you to take notice of it all. She seems to be putting it right up front. We can try to forgive her because obviously she has REAL issues, but still, I would have a hard time too. Of course, there is literal truth to what she says: you are not a family member and she is choosing to keep you away from her family. But why? And why tell you? For what? This is what I mean. She is telling you here this is intentional and this is her plan and she wants you to know it is. She wants you to know your place. In Latin culture this is very, very rude. When we go to family gatherings at M's sister's house, there is nearly always a neighbor or a friend, more than one. She is choosing to exclude you Nomad. And she wants you to know. And she continues to use you as a confident. Why? I am sorry, Nomad. [/QUOTE]
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