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Is it ever ok to just be "done?"
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 687634" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Insane Canadian, you explained it better than me. Thank you.</p><p>However I don't need to do the forgiveness part. It doesn't help me move on. It creates no feelings at all except apathy. So I skip that step.</p><p></p><p>I am not angry. I just no longer feel the hurt. My focus switches to those I love dearly who reciprocate. Life's too short and precious to me to spend time on people who are not interested in me. I give them a pass, but forgiving people who don't care does not seem useful to my recovery. Trust me, I tried, but it just feels empty and useless. So I use what does work for me. My motto: whatever works is good <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 687634, member: 1550"] Insane Canadian, you explained it better than me. Thank you. However I don't need to do the forgiveness part. It doesn't help me move on. It creates no feelings at all except apathy. So I skip that step. I am not angry. I just no longer feel the hurt. My focus switches to those I love dearly who reciprocate. Life's too short and precious to me to spend time on people who are not interested in me. I give them a pass, but forgiving people who don't care does not seem useful to my recovery. Trust me, I tried, but it just feels empty and useless. So I use what does work for me. My motto: whatever works is good ;) [/QUOTE]
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