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Is it morally right for us to kick our 19 yo son out of the house?
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 574686" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Welcome! Happy you found us, sorry you had to. </p><p></p><p>To me it sounds you have your ducks well in row. The good news is that if he is just lazy, rude and refuses to co-operate, those are the things that the real world can be very good teacher with. And what you tell to us, that seems to be the matter here. If it is about 'won't', just leaving it to them to survive somehow can be extremely helpful. If there would be clear 'can't'-issues, when you would have a more difficult decisions to do. But even then; safety and peace for you and your other kids are too important to put in risk especially when what he is doing now is not helping him at all. </p><p></p><p>If you can afford it all, I would however try to make some kind of therapy available for him, if he is ready to work with that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 574686, member: 14557"] Welcome! Happy you found us, sorry you had to. To me it sounds you have your ducks well in row. The good news is that if he is just lazy, rude and refuses to co-operate, those are the things that the real world can be very good teacher with. And what you tell to us, that seems to be the matter here. If it is about 'won't', just leaving it to them to survive somehow can be extremely helpful. If there would be clear 'can't'-issues, when you would have a more difficult decisions to do. But even then; safety and peace for you and your other kids are too important to put in risk especially when what he is doing now is not helping him at all. If you can afford it all, I would however try to make some kind of therapy available for him, if he is ready to work with that. [/QUOTE]
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