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Is it morally right for us to kick our 19 yo son out of the house?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 576520" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Well, he's made it clear hasn't he, no work but moving out. I don't know if you have to go the legal eviction route in your state, but here you do. You can have the sheriff come on the eviction date and escort him out of your home, that is what a few parents I know have had to do. You may want to research that to find out how you can actually force him to leave because he may be just bluffing and has no intention of physically moving. He is so bright that he may have figured something out so it behooves you to be one step ahead of him and to know your rights. </p><p></p><p>He really seems to be making a strong statement and digging his heels in. He sounds like he is just not willing to do ANYTHING. It really sounds so childish and immature. You may not find out what he has in mind or what he is thinking, but if I were you, I would make sure he will be leaving in 31 days, something sounds weird to me, as if he knows something you don't know or he thinks you don't know, which is why I'm suggesting you find out if you can legally evict him and exactly what you have to do. He sounds almost smug. </p><p></p><p>It's tough, most of us feel like we're waiting for the other shoe to drop A LOT, it's almost a way of life. But, stay the course, you're doing the right thing. Make sure all your ducks are in order and in the meantime try to find support and do things you like to do, enjoy your moments...........HUGS.......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 576520, member: 13542"] Well, he's made it clear hasn't he, no work but moving out. I don't know if you have to go the legal eviction route in your state, but here you do. You can have the sheriff come on the eviction date and escort him out of your home, that is what a few parents I know have had to do. You may want to research that to find out how you can actually force him to leave because he may be just bluffing and has no intention of physically moving. He is so bright that he may have figured something out so it behooves you to be one step ahead of him and to know your rights. He really seems to be making a strong statement and digging his heels in. He sounds like he is just not willing to do ANYTHING. It really sounds so childish and immature. You may not find out what he has in mind or what he is thinking, but if I were you, I would make sure he will be leaving in 31 days, something sounds weird to me, as if he knows something you don't know or he thinks you don't know, which is why I'm suggesting you find out if you can legally evict him and exactly what you have to do. He sounds almost smug. It's tough, most of us feel like we're waiting for the other shoe to drop A LOT, it's almost a way of life. But, stay the course, you're doing the right thing. Make sure all your ducks are in order and in the meantime try to find support and do things you like to do, enjoy your moments...........HUGS....... [/QUOTE]
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