It is always tricky.
We strive to understand our kids - from all angles.
But... we don't want them to be "different"...
Right.
in my opinion?
The secret to a good life is to find your particular gifts and make the most of those while avoiding as much as possible those activities that run into the brick-wall of our challenges...
And there's no way to do that, without some kind of labels!
I'm a tech-head. K1 is a gear-head. K2 is academic. etc.
Lets celebrate our differences, and make use of them, rather than hiding them and trying to be like everybody else.
(but for poor J, he's in a society where being like everybody else is the most important thing in life... )
