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<blockquote data-quote="seek" data-source="post: 717935" data-attributes="member: 22002"><p>Gosh, I feel for you. I know the one tear thing and being abused and rejected for having hurt feelings.</p><p></p><p>Since she is calling the shots, it is probably going to be a hellish nightmare - I don't know if you can get a social worker to come to the house and draw up a contract - seems like you really need everything spelled out so she is not demanding this and that - it will wear you out.</p><p></p><p>Is there any such thing as a girls sober living facility? If so and you can afford to pay for it until she is 18, it might save you a lot of heartache and grief.</p><p></p><p>Her lack of empathy for you seems like a very big problem in hoping for a peaceful living situation for all of you. Until she is invested in your relationship, why "should" she be nice to you? Right now, it's all about her - and even though she has "issues" and there are reasons for her behavior, doesn't mean she gets to abuse everyone else and live any way she wants to . . .</p><p></p><p>She has all of the power and leverage. You need to take your power back somehow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seek, post: 717935, member: 22002"] Gosh, I feel for you. I know the one tear thing and being abused and rejected for having hurt feelings. Since she is calling the shots, it is probably going to be a hellish nightmare - I don't know if you can get a social worker to come to the house and draw up a contract - seems like you really need everything spelled out so she is not demanding this and that - it will wear you out. Is there any such thing as a girls sober living facility? If so and you can afford to pay for it until she is 18, it might save you a lot of heartache and grief. Her lack of empathy for you seems like a very big problem in hoping for a peaceful living situation for all of you. Until she is invested in your relationship, why "should" she be nice to you? Right now, it's all about her - and even though she has "issues" and there are reasons for her behavior, doesn't mean she gets to abuse everyone else and live any way she wants to . . . She has all of the power and leverage. You need to take your power back somehow. [/QUOTE]
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