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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 749394" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>I’ve been delving into all my codependent no more books because for me the lines get muddled of what I should and shouldn’t do. I feel like I’ve “been bad” lately cuz I’ve brought my 30 yr. old homeless son snacks water toothbrushes etc. I feel like I’m rescuing again. I still can’t stop gassing his vehicle up every 4 days to the tune of about $300 a month. When I finally get a grip on myself he called me today asking for snacks cuz he was hungry. I said no and of course it started an argument. There’s no reason he can’t get work. He doesn’t consistently go to get food from food pantry and I get Frustrated with him. I start to second guess if I’m a bad mother. But this cycle has been going on for years even though the living in his car has been about 8 months or so. I get so confused and start to pull away from others and isolate myself. Ugh. This is exhausting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 749394, member: 23405"] I’ve been delving into all my codependent no more books because for me the lines get muddled of what I should and shouldn’t do. I feel like I’ve “been bad” lately cuz I’ve brought my 30 yr. old homeless son snacks water toothbrushes etc. I feel like I’m rescuing again. I still can’t stop gassing his vehicle up every 4 days to the tune of about $300 a month. When I finally get a grip on myself he called me today asking for snacks cuz he was hungry. I said no and of course it started an argument. There’s no reason he can’t get work. He doesn’t consistently go to get food from food pantry and I get Frustrated with him. I start to second guess if I’m a bad mother. But this cycle has been going on for years even though the living in his car has been about 8 months or so. I get so confused and start to pull away from others and isolate myself. Ugh. This is exhausting. [/QUOTE]
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