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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746624" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is my first thought: He lets them check on him or you cut off the rent. For his safety and so he cant be in control. He is not your boss, so to speak, and as long as you pay, he has no choice. Also he isnt safe not being checked on in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>Its not good when they control us...... unless we truly dont mind helping out even if they decide to not do anything asked of them. If you dont care what he does and are willing to pay rent anyway then you can do that. That is another option.</p><p></p><p>I am guessing I would not allow my own child to get away with that on my dime and if he is sober the egg disaster doesn't show him in a very good light. That's very childish and its vandalism. The cops could have been called. I was tough on my daughter when she used.</p><p></p><p> But we all can only do what we feel is right and can bear. And that is different for all.</p><p></p><p>So these are my thoughts but there is no right or wrong answers. You need to be at peace. They are not the only ones who matter. We do too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746624, member: 1550"] This is my first thought: He lets them check on him or you cut off the rent. For his safety and so he cant be in control. He is not your boss, so to speak, and as long as you pay, he has no choice. Also he isnt safe not being checked on in my opinion. Its not good when they control us...... unless we truly dont mind helping out even if they decide to not do anything asked of them. If you dont care what he does and are willing to pay rent anyway then you can do that. That is another option. I am guessing I would not allow my own child to get away with that on my dime and if he is sober the egg disaster doesn't show him in a very good light. That's very childish and its vandalism. The cops could have been called. I was tough on my daughter when she used. But we all can only do what we feel is right and can bear. And that is different for all. So these are my thoughts but there is no right or wrong answers. You need to be at peace. They are not the only ones who matter. We do too. [/QUOTE]
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