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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746637" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh I totally think its best to let the treatmrnt center handle it. Anything less for us is a good thing. If he refuses to comply though then it is up to the one with the $$$ to either withdraw it or else decide not to and let things go on as they will and drop expectations.</p><p></p><p> If we decide to refuse to support them, if they continue to refuse treaement, i do think we need to tell them and in my opinion less is more. A text is in my opinion less apt to erupt into an all out fight. And the parent has the option of not reading or responding to an abusive text. Or waiting a few days to respond or even read it. That way at least we semi control how far the anger can get. Or we can wait to answer until we are in a place that is good enough to deal with it. And we dont have to react. We can think first.</p><p></p><p>Now if the rent will be paid regardless, then there is no reason to engage and the treatment center can try to change his mind. If he refuses this then police well checks are certainly an option.</p><p></p><p>Its all about choices and I am strarting to see it is as much about our choices as theirs. In a way its like a sad game of chess. Who can.hold out the longest and steal the King.</p><p></p><p>Copa while I agree with you, it depends on how the treatment facility reacts. Hopefully the parent can stay uninvolved and that the treatment center is not going to throw up its hands and say no more. This facility has been very patient so they very well may keep pushing on. I hope so. </p><p></p><p>Personally I think the issue of being checked on would not matter so much unless things were going on that should not be. So I see this as a possible red flag and hope I am wrong.</p><p></p><p>Wishing all those involved the very best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746637, member: 1550"] Oh I totally think its best to let the treatmrnt center handle it. Anything less for us is a good thing. If he refuses to comply though then it is up to the one with the $$$ to either withdraw it or else decide not to and let things go on as they will and drop expectations. If we decide to refuse to support them, if they continue to refuse treaement, i do think we need to tell them and in my opinion less is more. A text is in my opinion less apt to erupt into an all out fight. And the parent has the option of not reading or responding to an abusive text. Or waiting a few days to respond or even read it. That way at least we semi control how far the anger can get. Or we can wait to answer until we are in a place that is good enough to deal with it. And we dont have to react. We can think first. Now if the rent will be paid regardless, then there is no reason to engage and the treatment center can try to change his mind. If he refuses this then police well checks are certainly an option. Its all about choices and I am strarting to see it is as much about our choices as theirs. In a way its like a sad game of chess. Who can.hold out the longest and steal the King. Copa while I agree with you, it depends on how the treatment facility reacts. Hopefully the parent can stay uninvolved and that the treatment center is not going to throw up its hands and say no more. This facility has been very patient so they very well may keep pushing on. I hope so. Personally I think the issue of being checked on would not matter so much unless things were going on that should not be. So I see this as a possible red flag and hope I am wrong. Wishing all those involved the very best. [/QUOTE]
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