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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746641" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is a good program but Son has not changed, and balks at the important, sensible rules he must follow to truly heal.</p><p></p><p>Even.the greatest program cant make another change.</p><p></p><p>I do feel drugs are still involved.</p><p></p><p>Until he is ready to live a saner life, and one can be a dry addict, there is nothing Mom or the peogram can do. He seems to be hiding under the ruse of checking to make sure he is okay to being an intrusion. I worry much is going on that he doesnt want anyone to know about. Why else would he mind opening the door?</p><p></p><p>I aure hope he turns around but so far he is still acting like a drug adfict. And an immature or drugged person or both. Just a very sad fact that I wish I did not need to pount out but I dont want Mom to be unaware of possibilities. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. Many of us swim in Denial.</p><p></p><p>His recovery will come when HE decides to change. I dont see him on the right track yet and if he were mine I would cut the rent. Period. My daughter had it rough and miserable and I cried for her always, but she quit. Even quit danged cigarettes!! We gave her NO money</p><p> She got a job.</p><p></p><p>Will this mehod work for all? No. Definitely NO! But unless one is rich, why spend money that will likely not help, that we need? Our difficult kids will not be there to care for us if we blow our retirement. We need our own nest egg.</p><p></p><p>This is a personal decision that we must sit with and decide upon. It doesn't need to be decided right away.</p><p></p><p> There is no right or wrong answer. We are here to suppirt all decisicions.</p><p></p><p>Much love and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746641, member: 1550"] This is a good program but Son has not changed, and balks at the important, sensible rules he must follow to truly heal. Even.the greatest program cant make another change. I do feel drugs are still involved. Until he is ready to live a saner life, and one can be a dry addict, there is nothing Mom or the peogram can do. He seems to be hiding under the ruse of checking to make sure he is okay to being an intrusion. I worry much is going on that he doesnt want anyone to know about. Why else would he mind opening the door? I aure hope he turns around but so far he is still acting like a drug adfict. And an immature or drugged person or both. Just a very sad fact that I wish I did not need to pount out but I dont want Mom to be unaware of possibilities. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. Many of us swim in Denial. His recovery will come when HE decides to change. I dont see him on the right track yet and if he were mine I would cut the rent. Period. My daughter had it rough and miserable and I cried for her always, but she quit. Even quit danged cigarettes!! We gave her NO money She got a job. Will this mehod work for all? No. Definitely NO! But unless one is rich, why spend money that will likely not help, that we need? Our difficult kids will not be there to care for us if we blow our retirement. We need our own nest egg. This is a personal decision that we must sit with and decide upon. It doesn't need to be decided right away. There is no right or wrong answer. We are here to suppirt all decisicions. Much love and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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