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It’s me struggling again...
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 750340" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>This might sound strange but I feel I can stop only if he stops asking for gas fill ups. I haven’t heard from him since yesterday’s blocked voicemail so I’m thinking he did cash the check from the loan he took against the car title and is using this for gas and food. But I know him all too well and when those funds are gone he will be verbally lashing out and blaming me that he had to do this and it’s all my fault. I am working towards accepting he may lose the car when he can’t pay back this small loan. </p><p></p><p>I read and re-read everyone’s posts and I’m going to really focus on radical acceptance. I know this is an “inside job”. I’m also going to the book store to look for books on that and also maybe something on how people verbally abused can heal. There’s got to be something on that. </p><p></p><p>I will try to pause and not rush forward to relieve my suffering or his. </p><p></p><p>Sending hugs for all your support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 750340, member: 23405"] This might sound strange but I feel I can stop only if he stops asking for gas fill ups. I haven’t heard from him since yesterday’s blocked voicemail so I’m thinking he did cash the check from the loan he took against the car title and is using this for gas and food. But I know him all too well and when those funds are gone he will be verbally lashing out and blaming me that he had to do this and it’s all my fault. I am working towards accepting he may lose the car when he can’t pay back this small loan. I read and re-read everyone’s posts and I’m going to really focus on radical acceptance. I know this is an “inside job”. I’m also going to the book store to look for books on that and also maybe something on how people verbally abused can heal. There’s got to be something on that. I will try to pause and not rush forward to relieve my suffering or his. Sending hugs for all your support. [/QUOTE]
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