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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 263893" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>So the tree seems to keep a fairly accurate scenario of J's life. sigh - I'm so sorry Addie. In a million years I never would have figured her for that level of violence. </p><p> </p><p>And Chrissie? Ugh....very sweet, loving - I figured she would ALWAYS be your little girl. I still think maybe after a bit - she'll find her way home. She doesn't sound angry to me like Jess does - just confused and trying to please everyone, and thus pleasing no one. </p><p> </p><p>David has turned out to be quite the man huh? I'm very proud of his accomplishments - and at 22? Who would want to think about kids? (do not answer that) </p><p> </p><p>If there is a someday with your girls - I hope for all you've done it's a happy one. I know you don't expect a thing - you never have, just a little respect. You've given so much - and I see that husband is hanging in there. What a guy! </p><p> </p><p>I guess I got lucky with Dude and his reunion-telecon with his biodad. I've had years and years of therapy to prepare ME for it - but I'm an adult with great coping skills or better than I had. I wasn't sure about Dude - and I never (despite the urge to) badmouthed the man. But when it all came down to one call? Dude called a toad a toad. Oddly enough - the part of me that wanted him to just go somewhere and die and be tortured and etc...? Couldn't have cared much less if the plumber called. THAT was amazing to me. </p><p> </p><p>DF and I are still together and he's in a lot of pain, disabilites cause him to take lots of pain medications, and the conversation in our home is lacking. But I found other things to busy myself with. Are you still smoking? lol......yes Star - nunya. </p><p> </p><p>Last I heard from you - all you said was - I'm taking a board break - and then nothing.....so this was cool. I don't know how you do it with girls. Dude is living in Foster care and they took in 2 girls and the woman loves girls more than boys but her husband and Dude are very close. Dude said females are a pain. lol. I said I resemble that remark - and he rolled his eyes. I've been witness to some of the girl antics - and WOW - makes me glad I had a boy. </p><p> </p><p>See you around....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 263893, member: 4964"] So the tree seems to keep a fairly accurate scenario of J's life. sigh - I'm so sorry Addie. In a million years I never would have figured her for that level of violence. And Chrissie? Ugh....very sweet, loving - I figured she would ALWAYS be your little girl. I still think maybe after a bit - she'll find her way home. She doesn't sound angry to me like Jess does - just confused and trying to please everyone, and thus pleasing no one. David has turned out to be quite the man huh? I'm very proud of his accomplishments - and at 22? Who would want to think about kids? (do not answer that) If there is a someday with your girls - I hope for all you've done it's a happy one. I know you don't expect a thing - you never have, just a little respect. You've given so much - and I see that husband is hanging in there. What a guy! I guess I got lucky with Dude and his reunion-telecon with his biodad. I've had years and years of therapy to prepare ME for it - but I'm an adult with great coping skills or better than I had. I wasn't sure about Dude - and I never (despite the urge to) badmouthed the man. But when it all came down to one call? Dude called a toad a toad. Oddly enough - the part of me that wanted him to just go somewhere and die and be tortured and etc...? Couldn't have cared much less if the plumber called. THAT was amazing to me. DF and I are still together and he's in a lot of pain, disabilites cause him to take lots of pain medications, and the conversation in our home is lacking. But I found other things to busy myself with. Are you still smoking? lol......yes Star - nunya. Last I heard from you - all you said was - I'm taking a board break - and then nothing.....so this was cool. I don't know how you do it with girls. Dude is living in Foster care and they took in 2 girls and the woman loves girls more than boys but her husband and Dude are very close. Dude said females are a pain. lol. I said I resemble that remark - and he rolled his eyes. I've been witness to some of the girl antics - and WOW - makes me glad I had a boy. See you around.... [/QUOTE]
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