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It's Not Over - More Drama Today
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 512903" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Well, and then the problem becomes one of threats and manipulation:</p><p></p><p>If you get mad at me - I will run away. </p><p>I did NOT run away - you owe me a reward....if I don't get the reward I want - I will kill myself.</p><p>I did NOT kill myself - you owe me a reward....if I don't get the reward I want - I am taking your stuff.</p><p>You are mad at me for taking your stuff? - but that's what you get for giving me an insufficient reward - now I *REALLY* have to show you!</p><p></p><p>I feel like I have to find a whole new way of relating to my child. This whole concept of rewards and consequences (no matter how much the tdocs are preaching it) just feels like a vicious cycle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 512903, member: 6546"] Well, and then the problem becomes one of threats and manipulation: If you get mad at me - I will run away. I did NOT run away - you owe me a reward....if I don't get the reward I want - I will kill myself. I did NOT kill myself - you owe me a reward....if I don't get the reward I want - I am taking your stuff. You are mad at me for taking your stuff? - but that's what you get for giving me an insufficient reward - now I *REALLY* have to show you! I feel like I have to find a whole new way of relating to my child. This whole concept of rewards and consequences (no matter how much the tdocs are preaching it) just feels like a vicious cycle. [/QUOTE]
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