I dont know how we got from No to written structures....but okay..lol. I am also a disorganized mess at home. Oddly enough when I was working I was organized as all get out. Wish it transferred over.
Cory is me organized one too. Maybe he got it from being in all those group homes. Who knows. He wasnt as a kid though. None of mine were.
I did have that very loose schedule of up in the morning at roughly the same time because no one slept past 6am. They wouldnt let us. I did find if I kept them busy we had less problems. And if they went to bed early it was better.