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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 761457" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi there. You asked for advice. It sounds as if there was a lot of dysfunction and lack of stability in your home. Lots and lots. Sisters in foster care...wow. that's big. Mom and ex not loving kids enough. Mom paying too much attention to ex...</p><p></p><p>in my opinion we are not knowledgeable enough here on this forum to help you help your sister. We are just mothers with opinions, some of us with baggage of our own.</p><p></p><p>I suggest you not do self help here but get this girl, and maybe the entire family, into therapy. I know you don't trust doctors but they are by far the most capable of helping in this complicated situation. Attachment problems are a big and serious peoblem when any child is separated from a major caregiver at a young age. Where is Dad in this? Did you all lose him too?Do you see him?</p><p></p><p>Adopted/foster kids tend to have extra issues due to separation and loss from the primary parents. They can get serious </p><p></p><p>Mom in my opinion should go for therapy too. She maybe put this boyfriend above her young kids. And the twins had to go to foster care for some reason. Abuse? Mom may have to learn to parent better. Nobody is born knowing how and some have a better knack for it than others. Some need teaching. I'm surprised Child Protective Services is not involved, mandating therapy.</p><p></p><p>Are the kids getting help in school maybe?</p><p></p><p>Please...you are a child too with no training in psychology. You can not diagnose your family's issues. Don't try. It us best that you go to a trained professional. </p><p></p><p>This is complicated. It's not a do-it-yourself situation. Talk to Mom and see if she is open to professional therapy.</p><p></p><p>Sending hugs and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 761457, member: 23706"] Hi there. You asked for advice. It sounds as if there was a lot of dysfunction and lack of stability in your home. Lots and lots. Sisters in foster care...wow. that's big. Mom and ex not loving kids enough. Mom paying too much attention to ex... in my opinion we are not knowledgeable enough here on this forum to help you help your sister. We are just mothers with opinions, some of us with baggage of our own. I suggest you not do self help here but get this girl, and maybe the entire family, into therapy. I know you don't trust doctors but they are by far the most capable of helping in this complicated situation. Attachment problems are a big and serious peoblem when any child is separated from a major caregiver at a young age. Where is Dad in this? Did you all lose him too?Do you see him? Adopted/foster kids tend to have extra issues due to separation and loss from the primary parents. They can get serious Mom in my opinion should go for therapy too. She maybe put this boyfriend above her young kids. And the twins had to go to foster care for some reason. Abuse? Mom may have to learn to parent better. Nobody is born knowing how and some have a better knack for it than others. Some need teaching. I'm surprised Child Protective Services is not involved, mandating therapy. Are the kids getting help in school maybe? Please...you are a child too with no training in psychology. You can not diagnose your family's issues. Don't try. It us best that you go to a trained professional. This is complicated. It's not a do-it-yourself situation. Talk to Mom and see if she is open to professional therapy. Sending hugs and love. [/QUOTE]
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