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Just feeling weak about the collateral damage
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<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 723937" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>Thank you everyone</p><p></p><p>As time goes on, I realize it is how my H has been since the traumatic night our son visited on us, that is the hardest change.</p><p></p><p>Its not because I am alone now in handling my sons logistics. That I was willing to assume because my H was handling many things and was traumatized after having to restrain my son and listen to his vicious hatred until the police arrived.</p><p></p><p>it’s because H just doesn’t inquire about our son anymore. Or for that matter about my emotional well-being In dealing with our son, I think because then he would know about him, and doesn’t want to.</p><p></p><p>It’s lonely. I feel like he’s not our son now, but my problem. My son is struggling to find the courage to make amends with his father and siblings. And I’m getting resentful that my H is not struggling to restore some connection, even if it is just to express anger or pain at the situation.</p><p></p><p>Any input appreciated</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 723937, member: 19290"] Thank you everyone As time goes on, I realize it is how my H has been since the traumatic night our son visited on us, that is the hardest change. Its not because I am alone now in handling my sons logistics. That I was willing to assume because my H was handling many things and was traumatized after having to restrain my son and listen to his vicious hatred until the police arrived. it’s because H just doesn’t inquire about our son anymore. Or for that matter about my emotional well-being In dealing with our son, I think because then he would know about him, and doesn’t want to. It’s lonely. I feel like he’s not our son now, but my problem. My son is struggling to find the courage to make amends with his father and siblings. And I’m getting resentful that my H is not struggling to restore some connection, even if it is just to express anger or pain at the situation. Any input appreciated [/QUOTE]
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