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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 465460" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It is time to find a salesperson's order pad with double or triple carbonless copies. I have used these in various similar situation, including kids who "forgot". You write it down and give him the original. Put a copy in a file with his name on it, and keep one on the pad if you have 3 copies. Then that file goes with you to each meeting. You can then pull otu the copy and say he got it on X date, can't have yoru copy, it is for the file, but he has one in his office or possession. If he needs another, make a xerox and note (before you xerox it) that it is the 2nd copy of this paper, given on date whatever. </p><p></p><p>Otherwise he is simply going to keep insisting you haven't given it to him. With all the records, and your proof that he had it already, it will either get him motivated to keep track or at some point embarrass him when you ask what happened to the other X copies, here it is in writing that you gave it to him. his "it doesn't exist if it isn't in writing" is a law enforcement way of promising something to someone to get info or a confession and then not giving what was promised and the other party has to prove it was promised - and who could take their word over the honcho's word. It is NOT about getting ready for court, it is about playing games. I thought the way you did until a friend's dad, who is a deputy, explained it to me. A LOT of law enforcement officers do what he is doing. It is one reason many interrogation rooms are now covered by cameras - keeps both sides from lying about what happened in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 465460, member: 1233"] It is time to find a salesperson's order pad with double or triple carbonless copies. I have used these in various similar situation, including kids who "forgot". You write it down and give him the original. Put a copy in a file with his name on it, and keep one on the pad if you have 3 copies. Then that file goes with you to each meeting. You can then pull otu the copy and say he got it on X date, can't have yoru copy, it is for the file, but he has one in his office or possession. If he needs another, make a xerox and note (before you xerox it) that it is the 2nd copy of this paper, given on date whatever. Otherwise he is simply going to keep insisting you haven't given it to him. With all the records, and your proof that he had it already, it will either get him motivated to keep track or at some point embarrass him when you ask what happened to the other X copies, here it is in writing that you gave it to him. his "it doesn't exist if it isn't in writing" is a law enforcement way of promising something to someone to get info or a confession and then not giving what was promised and the other party has to prove it was promised - and who could take their word over the honcho's word. It is NOT about getting ready for court, it is about playing games. I thought the way you did until a friend's dad, who is a deputy, explained it to me. A LOT of law enforcement officers do what he is doing. It is one reason many interrogation rooms are now covered by cameras - keeps both sides from lying about what happened in there. [/QUOTE]
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