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<blockquote data-quote="carolanne" data-source="post: 98739" data-attributes="member: 1904">Yes, he's her bio dad.&nbsp; I asked him and Becky to go for a walk so we could talk... :hammer: what a waste of time.&nbsp; I asked why she was angry and if there was anything I could do to help...nothing...even with husband asking, still nothing.&nbsp; She even turned around and went home after spewing some rather nasty words at me...this time in front of her dad.&nbsp; I told him to go home and leave me alone and went for a long walk to think and clear my head.I came in not too long ago and told him I am through.&nbsp; He will handle any and all that has to do with her now. I won't be treated like this any longer....she came in from school today and was one nasty sob in front of my friend and smirked her way out of the room.husband said it's a stage, wait it out.&nbsp; I said no, it's not, it's you being her friend instead of her father and you will deal with her now....that includes the calls from school, her big sister(through Big Sisters) who she has recently insulted and mouthed off to, and any other problem/situation that involves her.Than I handed him the printout as suggested and am now in MY room(moved his stuff to the spare) with my little guy watching tv...Carolanneoh yeah, as for his parents...mom ran off and left him and his sister when he was four; dad was an alcoholic who dumped both kids on some woman and left for a bit, came back, adopted just him out to an abusive woman who he ran away from to go back to a dad that was drunk all the time and didn't give him anything, not even a bed to sleep on; was in and out of juvie and has a record for break and enter as long as the staten island ferry and even though his dad has been dead for 14 yrs, he still talks about him like he's here and is a god.&nbsp; By the way, strange thing is our son was born on the exact same day his dad passed...died january 30 1993 and Johnnie was born Jan 30 2005...</blockquote>

[QUOTE="carolanne, post: 98739, member: 1904"] Yes, he's her bio dad. I asked him and Becky to go for a walk so we could talk... [img]:hammer:[/img] what a waste of time. I asked why she was angry and if there was anything I could do to help...nothing...even with husband asking, still nothing. She even turned around and went home after spewing some rather nasty words at me...this time in front of her dad. I told him to go home and leave me alone and went for a long walk to think and clear my head. I came in not too long ago and told him I am through. He will handle any and all that has to do with her now. I won't be treated like this any longer....she came in from school today and was one nasty sob in front of my friend and smirked her way out of the room. husband said it's a stage, wait it out. I said no, it's not, it's you being her friend instead of her father and you will deal with her now....that includes the calls from school, her big sister(through Big Sisters) who she has recently insulted and mouthed off to, and any other problem/situation that involves her. Than I handed him the printout as suggested and am now in MY room(moved his stuff to the spare) with my little guy watching tv... Carolanne oh yeah, as for his parents...mom ran off and left him and his sister when he was four; dad was an alcoholic who dumped both kids on some woman and left for a bit, came back, adopted just him out to an abusive woman who he ran away from to go back to a dad that was drunk all the time and didn't give him anything, not even a bed to sleep on; was in and out of juvie and has a record for break and enter as long as the staten island ferry and even though his dad has been dead for 14 yrs, he still talks about him like he's here and is a god. By the way, strange thing is our son was born on the exact same day his dad passed...died january 30 1993 and Johnnie was born Jan 30 2005... [/QUOTE]

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