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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 441688" data-attributes="member: 1550">Hate to say this, but many therapists are just too darn lenient and liberal. I had one tell my druggie daughter, who could look me in the eyes and lie, that I had to trust her more. ???? I told her I didn't agree with the therapist and that trust is earned. My daughter quit the drugs, but we had to make her leave first. My suggestion is to go to Al-Anon 0r Narc-Anon and get real time help from those who are also going through it. You don't want your 21 year old son to be that 50 year old man you married who never grew up. Since he has tendencies of being lazy and has seen laziness, I would not help or enable him in any way. He's a big boy and has to sink or swim.Puppy on a freeway? PLEASE! A puppy can't communicate or feed itself and doesn't even know about traffic. I have to question the competency of your therapist. I'd trust your own gut more!Keep us posted and hugs <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 441688, member: 1550"] Hate to say this, but many therapists are just too darn lenient and liberal. I had one tell my druggie daughter, who could look me in the eyes and lie, that I had to trust her more. ???? I told her I didn't agree with the therapist and that trust is earned. My daughter quit the drugs, but we had to make her leave first. My suggestion is to go to Al-Anon 0r Narc-Anon and get real time help from those who are also going through it. You don't want your 21 year old son to be that 50 year old man you married who never grew up. Since he has tendencies of being lazy and has seen laziness, I would not help or enable him in any way. He's a big boy and has to sink or swim. Puppy on a freeway? PLEASE! A puppy can't communicate or feed itself and doesn't even know about traffic. I have to question the competency of your therapist. I'd trust your own gut more! Keep us posted and hugs :) [/QUOTE]

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