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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 618969" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>We're right here, Strength.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry your son said those things to you. It always seemed to me that the hatred and disgust that comes roiling out of nowhere is how the self destructing person actually feels about himself. Try not to judge him for it, or take it personally. </p><p></p><p>If your son were in his healthy, right mind? He would not be talking to you that way.</p><p></p><p>It doesn't make it any easier to hear, I know. </p><p></p><p>I think it is always a good thing to tell our kids we love them, and that we know they will make it through. Recovering Enabler told me once to envision my child safely in God's hands. That imagery helped me.</p><p></p><p>I put myself there, too.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 618969, member: 17461"] We're right here, Strength. I am sorry your son said those things to you. It always seemed to me that the hatred and disgust that comes roiling out of nowhere is how the self destructing person actually feels about himself. Try not to judge him for it, or take it personally. If your son were in his healthy, right mind? He would not be talking to you that way. It doesn't make it any easier to hear, I know. I think it is always a good thing to tell our kids we love them, and that we know they will make it through. Recovering Enabler told me once to envision my child safely in God's hands. That imagery helped me. I put myself there, too. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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