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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714493" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We have no control over how others choose to react toward us. I had to learn that our judging others doesnt help them or us. Feeling like the victim (as I did) just kept me in a huge pity party.</p><p></p><p>I had to learn the truth...I cant expect others to fulfill me. It has to come from me. You can create your own peace and happiness, independent of your husband and son. And thr others in your family. You can find supportive friends who meet your needs and most of all you can learn how to meet your own needs. It is so frutal and sad to spend so much time angry at others. It is kinder to all, ourselves included, to take responsibility for our own happiness. We are all we can truly count on. Are you still in therapy to help you find peace from within? Aside from son and husband doing what you wish theyd do?</p><p></p><p> Good luck. It is not easy or fun to feel others are letting you down. But you can learn not to let YOU down. Hope you do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714493, member: 1550"] We have no control over how others choose to react toward us. I had to learn that our judging others doesnt help them or us. Feeling like the victim (as I did) just kept me in a huge pity party. I had to learn the truth...I cant expect others to fulfill me. It has to come from me. You can create your own peace and happiness, independent of your husband and son. And thr others in your family. You can find supportive friends who meet your needs and most of all you can learn how to meet your own needs. It is so frutal and sad to spend so much time angry at others. It is kinder to all, ourselves included, to take responsibility for our own happiness. We are all we can truly count on. Are you still in therapy to help you find peace from within? Aside from son and husband doing what you wish theyd do? Good luck. It is not easy or fun to feel others are letting you down. But you can learn not to let YOU down. Hope you do. [/QUOTE]
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