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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 316985" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>the youngest is better. it's taken so much work, more than i ever imagined to be honest. one things' for sure this isnt' how i pictured raising kids would be at all. she's tapering off medications, not sure it'll work but she wanted this has worked hard so we are trying to see. she's got alot of stuff though, so it may not work.</p><p> </p><p>i've been pushing super hard past year with her to push her to be strong and resilient to deal with who she is. so, she's in school no accommodations for her at all even though i got the 504 and so far so good. has made friends, i keep pushing the social aspect of it i think that's huge component, keep pumping her up, pushing her to be independent. it hurts though, i still want to keep her little, the mom in me. yet i wont' always be around, so i keep that in my head.</p><p> </p><p>good i'm glad it's calm with you, and yes it is hard because you wait for the sh*t to hit the fan so to speak. it's hard to just ride the waves of calm and appreciate those times, yet i guess it's crucial so we can fill our cup up again to be ready for the next storm.</p><p> </p><p>def not easy. now, my new problem is keeping difficult child away from easy child because easy child is volatile and nasty and verbally abusive to her and me. so it's nto easy with tapering down off medications because difficult child is def argumentative and irritable moreso and she for ten has quite the pair how she instigates arguments with easy child yet when she does she doesn't like the result.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 316985, member: 4514"] the youngest is better. it's taken so much work, more than i ever imagined to be honest. one things' for sure this isnt' how i pictured raising kids would be at all. she's tapering off medications, not sure it'll work but she wanted this has worked hard so we are trying to see. she's got alot of stuff though, so it may not work. i've been pushing super hard past year with her to push her to be strong and resilient to deal with who she is. so, she's in school no accommodations for her at all even though i got the 504 and so far so good. has made friends, i keep pushing the social aspect of it i think that's huge component, keep pumping her up, pushing her to be independent. it hurts though, i still want to keep her little, the mom in me. yet i wont' always be around, so i keep that in my head. good i'm glad it's calm with you, and yes it is hard because you wait for the sh*t to hit the fan so to speak. it's hard to just ride the waves of calm and appreciate those times, yet i guess it's crucial so we can fill our cup up again to be ready for the next storm. def not easy. now, my new problem is keeping difficult child away from easy child because easy child is volatile and nasty and verbally abusive to her and me. so it's nto easy with tapering down off medications because difficult child is def argumentative and irritable moreso and she for ten has quite the pair how she instigates arguments with easy child yet when she does she doesn't like the result. [/QUOTE]
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