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Life without Sis is amazingly, surprisingly good! Boundaries rock!
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 628124" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Me, too. I am afraid to say the bad things. I have been so damaged by bad things spoken over me. I never, ever, want willingly to do that or anything like it to someone else.</p><p></p><p>Forgive yourself, COM.</p><p></p><p>Your heart, like mine, is in the right place.</p><p></p><p>We are learning a different way to be honest.</p><p></p><p>Growth is painful.</p><p></p><p>Forgive yourself, COM.</p><p></p><p>Your heart is good. I see it every day, every single day, here on the site.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think what it was, for you and for me too, COM, was a choice. (For Recovering, for MWM, for me, for you. There is a pattern here. There is a reason we presented in this way not only for our families of origin, but for ourselves too, COM.</p><p></p><p>That is why we are able to examine and change our motives and interpretations, now.</p><p></p><p>We have always been sincere. We have sincerely believed there was a better, brighter way. We have consistently taken our headings from that star and done the best, the very best, we knew.</p><p></p><p>It is important to be honest about our parts in the ways that we are not proud of...but it is just as important to acknowledge the wonder of who we have been, too.</p><p></p><p>Even if it didn't work.</p><p></p><p>We are beautiful inside, COM.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes. That is where you and I will come into balance, COM. That is where we will conclude and let go of this. <em>But those who are suddenly confronted with a COM, a Cedar, A MWM or a recoveringenabler who stands up for herself are not going to like it. Not one bit.</em></p><p></p><p>They are not going to feel comfortable, as we will, in reaching a balance of tenderness, of acknowledgement that we all do the best we know, that they are in pain too, and hope for better relationship in the future.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry, COM, but they are duck peckers.</p><p></p><p>And their intent is to take bites out of us, and they practice their intent with purpose and determination.</p><p></p><p>They do, COM.</p><p> </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Ha! I love this! Thank you, COM.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 628124, member: 17461"] Me, too. I am afraid to say the bad things. I have been so damaged by bad things spoken over me. I never, ever, want willingly to do that or anything like it to someone else. Forgive yourself, COM. Your heart, like mine, is in the right place. We are learning a different way to be honest. Growth is painful. Forgive yourself, COM. Your heart is good. I see it every day, every single day, here on the site. I think what it was, for you and for me too, COM, was a choice. (For Recovering, for MWM, for me, for you. There is a pattern here. There is a reason we presented in this way not only for our families of origin, but for ourselves too, COM. That is why we are able to examine and change our motives and interpretations, now. We have always been sincere. We have sincerely believed there was a better, brighter way. We have consistently taken our headings from that star and done the best, the very best, we knew. It is important to be honest about our parts in the ways that we are not proud of...but it is just as important to acknowledge the wonder of who we have been, too. Even if it didn't work. We are beautiful inside, COM. Yes. That is where you and I will come into balance, COM. That is where we will conclude and let go of this. [I]But those who are suddenly confronted with a COM, a Cedar, A MWM or a recoveringenabler who stands up for herself are not going to like it. Not one bit.[/I] They are not going to feel comfortable, as we will, in reaching a balance of tenderness, of acknowledgement that we all do the best we know, that they are in pain too, and hope for better relationship in the future. I'm sorry, COM, but they are duck peckers. And their intent is to take bites out of us, and they practice their intent with purpose and determination. They do, COM. Ha! I love this! Thank you, COM. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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