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Making amends to my parents...
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 759870" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Congratulations on changing your life. So very proud of you and I don't know you. Change is so very hard.</p><p></p><p>You can see here that you are most likely very very loved by your parents and yes you have hurt them deeply for many years. You can't sugarcoat it.</p><p></p><p>I would start by showing them love and compassion. It will take much time for them to see that you have truly changed but that's okay. Just seeing you do better each and every day is all they will need from you. THAT is what makes life better for them. It is very scary for them so give them the time they need to trust you again.</p><p></p><p>I'm going through the exact same thing now with our son. You're always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm starting to realize there are no more shoes hanging over my head after 2-1/2 years of having him home.</p><p></p><p>Prayers for your continued path.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 759870, member: 15032"] Congratulations on changing your life. So very proud of you and I don't know you. Change is so very hard. You can see here that you are most likely very very loved by your parents and yes you have hurt them deeply for many years. You can't sugarcoat it. I would start by showing them love and compassion. It will take much time for them to see that you have truly changed but that's okay. Just seeing you do better each and every day is all they will need from you. THAT is what makes life better for them. It is very scary for them so give them the time they need to trust you again. I'm going through the exact same thing now with our son. You're always waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm starting to realize there are no more shoes hanging over my head after 2-1/2 years of having him home. Prayers for your continued path. [/QUOTE]
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