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Meltdown begets meltdown?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 744123" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Why are you looking for drama?</p><p></p><p>This is simple: He needs to go. All of the power, decisions and responsibility are yours. He will keep pushing the limits as long as you permit it.</p><p></p><p>He can stay in the area if he chooses, but not hang out at your house. If you choose you can meet him somewhere else for a visit. Nothing you have written indicates he is willing to listen to your needs or respect your boundaries. It is only a question of not letting him into the house again. You can tell him to call you before coming and from now on, tell him you will meet him somewhere else.</p><p></p><p>How in the world would an intervention help? I am missing that crucial piece. This is not an issue about him. This is an issue about you. Whether or not you are going to take responsibility to set a limit and enforce it, with him. Over and over again he is disrespectful, puts all responsibility onto you, and pushes limits. This will not change anytime soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 744123, member: 18958"] Why are you looking for drama? This is simple: He needs to go. All of the power, decisions and responsibility are yours. He will keep pushing the limits as long as you permit it. He can stay in the area if he chooses, but not hang out at your house. If you choose you can meet him somewhere else for a visit. Nothing you have written indicates he is willing to listen to your needs or respect your boundaries. It is only a question of not letting him into the house again. You can tell him to call you before coming and from now on, tell him you will meet him somewhere else. How in the world would an intervention help? I am missing that crucial piece. This is not an issue about him. This is an issue about you. Whether or not you are going to take responsibility to set a limit and enforce it, with him. Over and over again he is disrespectful, puts all responsibility onto you, and pushes limits. This will not change anytime soon. [/QUOTE]
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