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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 740931" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is TERRIBLE. </p><p></p><p>You have no voice or vote on the relationship of your son and ex, but you most assuredly do with respect to your own with him. I think this is horrible. I know that this is blowing off stream. But this is also a felony crime. It is called "terrorist threat." I ran across many prisoners in state prison who were convicted for less. As I remember just the words got a sentence of 3 to 4 years in State Prison.</p><p></p><p>We do our kids no favors by tolerating what would be crimes. I think you are doing exactly the right thing SWOT in pulling back. </p><p></p><p>M's niece has been in a years long custody battle. The father beat the <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> out of her. For reasons unknown to me, her parents supported her to drop charges. He has been relentless in getting custody of their 3 children, and he has succeeded in getting primary custody. The mother gets the kids on the weekends, and a few overnights a week, from like 8 at night to 8 in the morning, when everybody is asleep. This ugliness happens in custody arrangements. It is intolerable. I understand that. But people deal.</p><p></p><p>Your son seems to escalate rather than accept and to reconcile. He seems to be no victim here. He contributes along with his ex to a pervasive atmosphere of fear and instability for his child. I had a great deal of compassion for him. I have less now. </p><p></p><p>It is easy for somebody who is not involved to take a stand. I recognize this. But I really support the way your kids see this situation. Your son is being impossible and acting impossibly with you. He is a grown man and a father who is acting impossibly bad. I support you to set whatever limit you need to, in order to not be targeted by him. </p><p></p><p>This is helpful for me to understand my own situation with my son. My son is not mean. He does not make threats. But he will not accept responsibility or boundaries. And he seems to not understand reciprocity. Even this KILLS me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 740931, member: 18958"] This is TERRIBLE. You have no voice or vote on the relationship of your son and ex, but you most assuredly do with respect to your own with him. I think this is horrible. I know that this is blowing off stream. But this is also a felony crime. It is called "terrorist threat." I ran across many prisoners in state prison who were convicted for less. As I remember just the words got a sentence of 3 to 4 years in State Prison. We do our kids no favors by tolerating what would be crimes. I think you are doing exactly the right thing SWOT in pulling back. M's niece has been in a years long custody battle. The father beat the :censored2: out of her. For reasons unknown to me, her parents supported her to drop charges. He has been relentless in getting custody of their 3 children, and he has succeeded in getting primary custody. The mother gets the kids on the weekends, and a few overnights a week, from like 8 at night to 8 in the morning, when everybody is asleep. This ugliness happens in custody arrangements. It is intolerable. I understand that. But people deal. Your son seems to escalate rather than accept and to reconcile. He seems to be no victim here. He contributes along with his ex to a pervasive atmosphere of fear and instability for his child. I had a great deal of compassion for him. I have less now. It is easy for somebody who is not involved to take a stand. I recognize this. But I really support the way your kids see this situation. Your son is being impossible and acting impossibly with you. He is a grown man and a father who is acting impossibly bad. I support you to set whatever limit you need to, in order to not be targeted by him. This is helpful for me to understand my own situation with my son. My son is not mean. He does not make threats. But he will not accept responsibility or boundaries. And he seems to not understand reciprocity. Even this KILLS me. [/QUOTE]
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