I am sorry for your troubles, I will not post much, because I am having some stuff going on, too.
I will tell you, my hubs second cousins son, was a meth addict.
He became dangerous, violent.
I spoke with her yesterday, he is not using anymore.
She said, "He went to jail, JAIL SAVED HIM."
He never wanted to be in jail again.
This does not work for everyone, but jail is not the worst thing that can happen to your son.
I agree with the others, I would not give up my house, to my d cs. They would destroy it. It would not help them.
Hugs for your hurting heart.
leafy