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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765386" data-attributes="member: 32799">I do not see it as high jacking at all! We have similar issues and see this as shared thoughts. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face&nbsp; &nbsp; :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" />&nbsp; It’s difficult hearing of what he experienced in jail, how heartbreaking for you both. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="😢" title="Crying face&nbsp; &nbsp; :cry:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f622.png" data-shortname=":cry:" /> We would think this would make him want to really try and change his life around huh? My daughter has had similar issues happen to her, not in jail that I know of, and if I were in her shoes…..would never want it to happen ever again. You and I are only a year apart in age so you definitely understand when I say our children’s generation is so different than when we were raised. More feelings of entitlement and that they can do no wrong, get away with anything and everything. It’s not just for those who have mental issues, my son is the very same. A tough world out there for them, so very thankful I do not have grandchildren who have to deal with all that’s going on these days. I am in total agreement!!!!&nbsp; Oh it makes me so angry that while in jail they are getting exactly what they want, which is to do nothing and be taken care of. Make them work, something productive as you said. Some jails do this and they earn a bit of money to start with when they get out. The jail my daughter is in does not even give the original clothes they went in with but something that fits them when released. I hope you have an even better day!&nbsp; Thank you for your wisdom and caring but again sorry we met through such terrible issues. We are going to see ourselves through this, we have too. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart&nbsp; &nbsp; :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765386, member: 32799"] I do not see it as high jacking at all! We have similar issues and see this as shared thoughts. 🤗 It’s difficult hearing of what he experienced in jail, how heartbreaking for you both. 😢 We would think this would make him want to really try and change his life around huh? My daughter has had similar issues happen to her, not in jail that I know of, and if I were in her shoes…..would never want it to happen ever again. You and I are only a year apart in age so you definitely understand when I say our children’s generation is so different than when we were raised. More feelings of entitlement and that they can do no wrong, get away with anything and everything. It’s not just for those who have mental issues, my son is the very same. A tough world out there for them, so very thankful I do not have grandchildren who have to deal with all that’s going on these days. I am in total agreement!!!! Oh it makes me so angry that while in jail they are getting exactly what they want, which is to do nothing and be taken care of. Make them work, something productive as you said. Some jails do this and they earn a bit of money to start with when they get out. The jail my daughter is in does not even give the original clothes they went in with but something that fits them when released. I hope you have an even better day! Thank you for your wisdom and caring but again sorry we met through such terrible issues. We are going to see ourselves through this, we have too. ❤️ [/QUOTE]

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