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<blockquote data-quote="pinevalley" data-source="post: 500210" data-attributes="member: 3710"><p>Well, difficult child came home late tonight, and my h insisted that we had to let him stay here, so he wouldn't freeze outside tonight. My h definitely wants to evict difficult child, but he doesn't want him to freeze outside. We have to give difficult child a 5 day notarized eviction notice, and then after the 5th day we go to court and file for a court date to formalize the eviction. We will give difficult child the notarized 5 day eviction notice next week. difficult child has a court date next Thursday for his felony burglary charge, and we want to wait until this court case is over next week and then serve difficult child the notice. </p><p></p><p>difficult child actually had the nerve to tell me that he went to the AA meeting tonight, but that he was at a different place from the church where I went looking for him. Of course he also "forgot" to bring a sign-in sheet home from the meeting. I am sure that he did not go to any AA meeting tonight, and I am going to call the IOP counselors tomorrow and tell them that difficult child missed the program and also did not attend any AA meeting. </p><p></p><p>I also took everyone's advice, and I did not scream and yell at him about his drug use and his choice of druggie friends. Both husband and I just told him that he lied to me about going to the AA meeting tonight, and he lies to us all the time. We told him that we don't want him to live in our house if we can't trust him, since he lies to us every day. I told difficult child that he is an adult now, and that we are going to start to treat him like an adult. We can't force him to stop using drugs, or hanging out with the wrong friends. But we told him that we CAN keep him out of our house if we don't trust him, because of his constant lying. When we mentioned the words eviction all of a sudden difficult child stated that "ok, he will stop lying to us now". Wow, like we are really going to believe that! What a joke!</p><p></p><p>Thank you to everyone who helped me to understand the serious problem that difficult child has, and that I can't fix it even though I keep trying and trying. You really made a lot of sense, and you helped me to get through this very difficult night. I am so amazed at the power of this website, and the very wise people who are willing to help other difficult child parents. You are the very best!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pinevalley, post: 500210, member: 3710"] Well, difficult child came home late tonight, and my h insisted that we had to let him stay here, so he wouldn't freeze outside tonight. My h definitely wants to evict difficult child, but he doesn't want him to freeze outside. We have to give difficult child a 5 day notarized eviction notice, and then after the 5th day we go to court and file for a court date to formalize the eviction. We will give difficult child the notarized 5 day eviction notice next week. difficult child has a court date next Thursday for his felony burglary charge, and we want to wait until this court case is over next week and then serve difficult child the notice. difficult child actually had the nerve to tell me that he went to the AA meeting tonight, but that he was at a different place from the church where I went looking for him. Of course he also "forgot" to bring a sign-in sheet home from the meeting. I am sure that he did not go to any AA meeting tonight, and I am going to call the IOP counselors tomorrow and tell them that difficult child missed the program and also did not attend any AA meeting. I also took everyone's advice, and I did not scream and yell at him about his drug use and his choice of druggie friends. Both husband and I just told him that he lied to me about going to the AA meeting tonight, and he lies to us all the time. We told him that we don't want him to live in our house if we can't trust him, since he lies to us every day. I told difficult child that he is an adult now, and that we are going to start to treat him like an adult. We can't force him to stop using drugs, or hanging out with the wrong friends. But we told him that we CAN keep him out of our house if we don't trust him, because of his constant lying. When we mentioned the words eviction all of a sudden difficult child stated that "ok, he will stop lying to us now". Wow, like we are really going to believe that! What a joke! Thank you to everyone who helped me to understand the serious problem that difficult child has, and that I can't fix it even though I keep trying and trying. You really made a lot of sense, and you helped me to get through this very difficult night. I am so amazed at the power of this website, and the very wise people who are willing to help other difficult child parents. You are the very best! [/QUOTE]
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