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<blockquote data-quote="Guidance seeker" data-source="post: 726508" data-attributes="member: 22632"><p>I’m feeling so angry tonight. The hotel we helped him pay for needed a bank card details to book in. My husband gave his although it was booked in my son’s name. My son had no card.</p><p></p><p>My husband visited him and there were beer bottles in his room. He has no money. My husband rang the hotel and my son has ran up a bill of £84 at the hotel bar which is charged to my husband’s card.</p><p></p><p>We didn’t think about him being able to charge things to the card when we booked.</p><p></p><p>I’m so angry and so upset. What possesses him to be so bad with us? I thought we were helping him when he was so desperate but he doesn’t see it that way, he sees it as his right! He thinks he should be living at home with us as if nothing ever happened and thinks that we have made him homeless.</p><p></p><p>I refused to talk to him on the phone tonight as I was so angry and he texted that I was a “drama queen”. </p><p></p><p>Detaching from him does seem the only way forward and I’m angry with myself too for making things too easy for him when he was homeless - probably because I couldn’t stand the thought of him on the streets.</p><p></p><p>He gets his flat tomorrow. He needed a character reference and I couldn’t think of one single person to ask. Eventually a support worker gave one. </p><p></p><p>I want to hold this angry feeling to stay strong because I’m annoyed with myself at how often I feel sorry for him and help him despite the 4 years of hell he put us through and continues to do so.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Guidance seeker, post: 726508, member: 22632"] I’m feeling so angry tonight. The hotel we helped him pay for needed a bank card details to book in. My husband gave his although it was booked in my son’s name. My son had no card. My husband visited him and there were beer bottles in his room. He has no money. My husband rang the hotel and my son has ran up a bill of £84 at the hotel bar which is charged to my husband’s card. We didn’t think about him being able to charge things to the card when we booked. I’m so angry and so upset. What possesses him to be so bad with us? I thought we were helping him when he was so desperate but he doesn’t see it that way, he sees it as his right! He thinks he should be living at home with us as if nothing ever happened and thinks that we have made him homeless. I refused to talk to him on the phone tonight as I was so angry and he texted that I was a “drama queen”. Detaching from him does seem the only way forward and I’m angry with myself too for making things too easy for him when he was homeless - probably because I couldn’t stand the thought of him on the streets. He gets his flat tomorrow. He needed a character reference and I couldn’t think of one single person to ask. Eventually a support worker gave one. I want to hold this angry feeling to stay strong because I’m annoyed with myself at how often I feel sorry for him and help him despite the 4 years of hell he put us through and continues to do so. [/QUOTE]
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