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Motivation....someone help me please.
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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 715917" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Drug testing was a huge battle and as the program he is in currently doesn't drug test I stopped. I told him it is up to him to change his life. I am trying to detach and not be his community jailer. He has a bail officer and rehab counsellor for that. I am not going to manage his money he is almost 18. Hell he has only made it to work a handful of times.</p><p></p><p>He does not have money for drugs. He was dealing to support his habit. That is why I called the police, he was ding this feomcmy home. He did not spend his money from his first pay check completely (I have seen what he is spending it on via on line banking).</p><p></p><p>Drugs or no drugs he is lazy and unfocused and I have made up my mind to get through the summer and get him back to his academic program. If he doesn't take achool seriously he will have to leave my home.</p><p></p><p>Monitoring, babysitting, supporting him and stopping the consequences of his actions to have full impact on him are notgoing to happen any more.</p><p></p><p>You earn money and spend it and your broke ....too bad. Tou don't get to your meetings, too bad. You smoke amd have no money for cigarettes, too bad. You don't get up for work, too bad. Suffer the consequences.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 715917, member: 21895"] Drug testing was a huge battle and as the program he is in currently doesn't drug test I stopped. I told him it is up to him to change his life. I am trying to detach and not be his community jailer. He has a bail officer and rehab counsellor for that. I am not going to manage his money he is almost 18. Hell he has only made it to work a handful of times. He does not have money for drugs. He was dealing to support his habit. That is why I called the police, he was ding this feomcmy home. He did not spend his money from his first pay check completely (I have seen what he is spending it on via on line banking). Drugs or no drugs he is lazy and unfocused and I have made up my mind to get through the summer and get him back to his academic program. If he doesn't take achool seriously he will have to leave my home. Monitoring, babysitting, supporting him and stopping the consequences of his actions to have full impact on him are notgoing to happen any more. You earn money and spend it and your broke ....too bad. Tou don't get to your meetings, too bad. You smoke amd have no money for cigarettes, too bad. You don't get up for work, too bad. Suffer the consequences. [/QUOTE]
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