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Moved son out yesterday and am heartbroken
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<blockquote data-quote="Mom1967" data-source="post: 748326" data-attributes="member: 23847"><p>my son just reached out to his father. He said that he was back from his paintball event and had no where to go. He told him that I had tried to choke him. To his credit my ex husband said, I’ve seen the pictures of your mom’s bruises. Where are yours? And calling the police on your mom and lying to them because you’ve been locked out of the house for your behavior and can’t get your paintball pants? </p><p></p><p>He told him that I had moved all of his stuff to a storage unit, have him the code and told him he needed to call and apologize to me but not to try to contact me in person. </p><p></p><p>He said the conflict was mutual and he didn’t think he owed me an apology but he would get his stuff out of storage and find a place to live. </p><p></p><p>So at least I know he is safe. His father and I discussed me returning the cell phone I pay for so we would at least be able to have a line of communication with him but we have decided not to. Every bill we pay for him is more money he has to spend on dab. Being financially tight and completely on his own is what he needs right now. </p><p></p><p>It also helped me to see he wasn’t sorry for hurting me because he thinks I was being aggressive by locking him out of the house. </p><p></p><p>This shows me I should give him nothing and focus on my own safety and the safety of my daughter. </p><p></p><p>He did express remorse to his dad for calling the police on me in order to get his paintball stuff. </p><p></p><p>So I have two days to pack the apartment to move to my new house. He does not have my new address. I don’t know how long we will have no contact but I’m glad his dad had contact. </p><p></p><p>My daughter believes that I value My son more than I am valuing myself. I think that is part of motherhood. It’s what we sign up for when we commit to them. But I agree I need counseling or al. Anon. </p><p></p><p>I am so grateful for each of you who took the tome to share your stories and just be there for me when I was hopeless, drowning, in a long panic attack, and In Shock and grief. </p><p></p><p>I feel blessed beyond belief that strangers would step up and help me when it was clear I couldn’t even help myself. </p><p></p><p>Thank you, thank you, thank you for not judging me and instead, making sure I was not alone. A million hugs to you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mom1967, post: 748326, member: 23847"] my son just reached out to his father. He said that he was back from his paintball event and had no where to go. He told him that I had tried to choke him. To his credit my ex husband said, I’ve seen the pictures of your mom’s bruises. Where are yours? And calling the police on your mom and lying to them because you’ve been locked out of the house for your behavior and can’t get your paintball pants? He told him that I had moved all of his stuff to a storage unit, have him the code and told him he needed to call and apologize to me but not to try to contact me in person. He said the conflict was mutual and he didn’t think he owed me an apology but he would get his stuff out of storage and find a place to live. So at least I know he is safe. His father and I discussed me returning the cell phone I pay for so we would at least be able to have a line of communication with him but we have decided not to. Every bill we pay for him is more money he has to spend on dab. Being financially tight and completely on his own is what he needs right now. It also helped me to see he wasn’t sorry for hurting me because he thinks I was being aggressive by locking him out of the house. This shows me I should give him nothing and focus on my own safety and the safety of my daughter. He did express remorse to his dad for calling the police on me in order to get his paintball stuff. So I have two days to pack the apartment to move to my new house. He does not have my new address. I don’t know how long we will have no contact but I’m glad his dad had contact. My daughter believes that I value My son more than I am valuing myself. I think that is part of motherhood. It’s what we sign up for when we commit to them. But I agree I need counseling or al. Anon. I am so grateful for each of you who took the tome to share your stories and just be there for me when I was hopeless, drowning, in a long panic attack, and In Shock and grief. I feel blessed beyond belief that strangers would step up and help me when it was clear I couldn’t even help myself. Thank you, thank you, thank you for not judging me and instead, making sure I was not alone. A million hugs to you all. [/QUOTE]
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