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Moved son out yesterday and am heartbroken
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751459" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>How are you a failure as a parent?</p><p></p><p>The world has more impact and peers also do on our kids than we do. They do not keep what we taught them, no matter how wise it is, unless they want to. Kids choose what they keep and discard. Drug using kids by nature can not accept good values.</p><p></p><p>You have no control over your kids anymore. Your husband is an enabler.bit doesn't help them, but it IS the easy way. Many parents take the easy way.</p><p></p><p>We did for years because we, mostly me in the end, needed Kay in my life. Whether vile, everything I didn't wish her to become and mean to us unless we gave in to her demands, I wanted my daughter in my life. I would have kissed her feet to keep her around. Yes, I was pathetic. But I get those who CAN'T let go. Butnin my case everyone was weary of her domination over my life and I risked my entire loving support system for Kay.</p><p></p><p>With hard work and great therapy, I decided myself that I had to choose those who were really loving souls. Kay is not. She is a user,/abuser. </p><p></p><p>I turned it around and my life is peaceful now. </p><p></p><p>We all do what we feel is right. Whatever you do, nobody will condemn you. This is my story and what I know was right for us.</p><p></p><p>I pray for Kay and my grandson all day long. She is in His hands now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751459, member: 23706"] How are you a failure as a parent? The world has more impact and peers also do on our kids than we do. They do not keep what we taught them, no matter how wise it is, unless they want to. Kids choose what they keep and discard. Drug using kids by nature can not accept good values. You have no control over your kids anymore. Your husband is an enabler.bit doesn't help them, but it IS the easy way. Many parents take the easy way. We did for years because we, mostly me in the end, needed Kay in my life. Whether vile, everything I didn't wish her to become and mean to us unless we gave in to her demands, I wanted my daughter in my life. I would have kissed her feet to keep her around. Yes, I was pathetic. But I get those who CAN'T let go. Butnin my case everyone was weary of her domination over my life and I risked my entire loving support system for Kay. With hard work and great therapy, I decided myself that I had to choose those who were really loving souls. Kay is not. She is a user,/abuser. I turned it around and my life is peaceful now. We all do what we feel is right. Whatever you do, nobody will condemn you. This is my story and what I know was right for us. I pray for Kay and my grandson all day long. She is in His hands now. [/QUOTE]
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