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My 20 year old son won't move out. HELP!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 529635" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Without your hubby supporting you it is going to be difficult. Your son is an adult and needs to be taking care of himself. He doesn't need to work as long as you provide him with food, shelter, and cable. If he refuses to move out you may have to start eviction processes, it takes several months but in most states you can't just throw him out on the street.</p><p></p><p>My first thought is depression, but if all of his friends are like that....... I would not rule out smoking pot.</p><p></p><p>I have a 50yo step relative with a BA, works at a flea market on the weekends, and would still live with dad if dad would allow it. He is a mooch and actually brags that he has no bills - but - he literally has 3 shirts to his name and his mother pays his medical bills. </p><p></p><p>Counseling helped me along with the many books that are available. It is very hard on parents, but your husband is not helping him by allowing him to live in your home without helping with the housework. He should be working and paying rent not playing games all night and sleeping all day.</p><p></p><p>Can you take a vacation for a while and let dad deal with your son completely for a while??? Even without the drugs I know you have a very stressful homelife, take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>(((blessings for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 529635, member: 13558"] Without your hubby supporting you it is going to be difficult. Your son is an adult and needs to be taking care of himself. He doesn't need to work as long as you provide him with food, shelter, and cable. If he refuses to move out you may have to start eviction processes, it takes several months but in most states you can't just throw him out on the street. My first thought is depression, but if all of his friends are like that....... I would not rule out smoking pot. I have a 50yo step relative with a BA, works at a flea market on the weekends, and would still live with dad if dad would allow it. He is a mooch and actually brags that he has no bills - but - he literally has 3 shirts to his name and his mother pays his medical bills. Counseling helped me along with the many books that are available. It is very hard on parents, but your husband is not helping him by allowing him to live in your home without helping with the housework. He should be working and paying rent not playing games all night and sleeping all day. Can you take a vacation for a while and let dad deal with your son completely for a while??? Even without the drugs I know you have a very stressful homelife, take care of yourself. (((blessings for us all))) [/QUOTE]
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