I think that most people here say "tough love" for those kids who are out of control as opposed to depressed or mentally ill, but willing to work, compliant with medication and generally good kids that need help.
My kid disrespected up, stole from us, smoked pot in the house. Does he have problems? I'm sure he does. But we can't be expected to continue to support a kid who steals from us and refuses to do anything to help himself.
Please, start your own thread and let us know what's going on. Give some background and I'm sure there are those here who will be happy to give you advice, or just lend a sympathetic ear.
